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Parent: No, I have told you I don't want you having anything to do with so and so. You get your butt back in here right now. You are on restriction.
Teen: No! I am going out with so and so and you can't stop me! teen grabbed hold of so and so's arm and they turn and leave, so and so smirking over shoulder back at parent. Parent calls cops. They say "so what." parent cries. 2 months later neighbor of parent calls: your daughter is asleep in my carport. Please come and get her. Parent rushes over. Finds daughter in fetal position, no longer breathing. fat rubber band and needle lying on cement next to her arm.
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make up your own senario. Parents need to be restrictive.
Even cougar cubs that stray too far or play after they've been warned to knock it off are reprimanded. Those who do not heed warnings wind up hurt. Those who refuse to see the love behind the restrictions and who continue to rebel against those restrictions get hurt. It is not that the restrictions are restrictive or the setter of the restrictions it is the consequences of not believing they are put there for your good. Highway signs: hairpin turn ahead. Speed limit 20mph. But you rebel against that sign and its maker. How dare they even post it and impose a speed LIMIT for this upcoming corner! So you gas it to 50, 55, 60mph. Neither Phil nor I can stop you. God could, but hey, He honors your free will. You want to go do that corner YOUR way, you can. You want to live without God? He will let you. So will Phil. So will I. But your rebelliousness does not change the fact that restrictions like that road sign were set there out of love for you.
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One more thing before I shut up and go to bed
in the book I read the thou shall have no other gods before me one IS a part of number one, not 2. The bottom line choice set before all people is this: Life or death. God reminds people that to choose Him is life and to not chose Him is to chose death. This is just the way things work, like gravity. Like physics. One year, When we had a big holiday dinner we invited guests and other "guests" invited themselves and we made them welcome in our home. Now, I laid out the table and all the feast and everyone gathered around. My husband took off his hat and motioned to the other young men to do so to, and then he bowed his head and began a prayer of thanks. One uninvited guest chose that time to rebel against "our" prayer, boasting about his rights to athiesm and about how our prayer was offensive to him. Were we then obligated to that self-invited guest to serve him? Were we within our rights as the home owners and feast providers to escort him out the door or to "talk" with him about respecting us in our home? (We chose the "talk" but he could take it or leave it.) Is God in anyway obligated to those who chose not to chose Him? How come, if that is your choice, do you hold Him responsible for it? It strikes me as strange for those who chose not to believe in God to get mad at God for imposing restrictions within His own creation. Goodnight.
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Doesn't your jesus teach you to "love your enemy" and "turn the other cheek" Quote:
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Glad we had the talk tonight and I do now see why you thought I was picking on you and treating you differently now. I just answered a post by person basically telling me the person I think is my God, is a frelling idiot, and I didn't take it personally. But when your like 100 times nicer [Than person was) than this and simply say you think it is nonsense, then I take it personally. And I understand the double standard you accused me of, and was guilty of, much better now. Personally I wish we could all simply frame this discussion in carefully crafted words which leave off insults of others ideas, inasmuch as humanly possible, and simple state what we believe and why we believe it. Because it accomplishes what we want to attain, and it doesn't leave a trail of bitterness and things taken personally. But thanks for the talk as I now understand what it is you were feeling and why you got mad at me or felt like I was using a double standard with you. And also that you were justified in feeling that way. Thnx- Phil
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That's akin to someone claiming the bullet is the "evil party"when someone picks up a loaded gun and decides to go on a shooting rampage. Quote:
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EG: Thou shalt not kill.... however your god ordered people to go out on smitefests in his name! Thou shalt not steal .....however in the book, jc sent his mates up to town to untie someone elses colt and swipe it for him. Breaking of these "gods laws" seems to be ok though as long as "god" ordains it, *shrug* Damned if you do and damned if you don't.....if you DON'T do as "god" commands, SMITE.....if you DO as "god" commands, well you have broken the laws anyway so...SMITE (ie; banished to the lake of fire) I fail to see how any of that could even be construed as a more "excellent way" Phil. |
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I realise you have kids too Iscribe. Would you EVER threaten your children with death for disobeying your boundaries/rules/restrictions? Do you love them any less if they go against you? Do you think they love YOU any less when they cross those boundaries? Quote:
EG: We have all seen on Tv news, stories of people being killed or injured in their workplace, in a car accident, people walking across the street and being hit by buses..etc... Seen news stories of houses burning down because of electrical fault, we see news stories about natural disaster...cyclones, hurricanes, tsunami etc... stories of plane crashes, rail crashes....should I go on? these things are warnings that these things DO or COULD happen, however people still go to work, drive cars and cross the street, live in houses and even rebuild houses AFTER natural disaster on the same block of land, still get into aircraft and onto trains...etc etc. So what are people supposed to do Iscribe? Sit on a rock somewhere and do nothing? Hmm hang on, that natural disaster thing... you could be sitting on that rock and a tornado could whip you up in its frenzied whirlwind...what is a girl to do? Quote:
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Bible god is such a paranoid, conditional dictator. Either/OR....with "him" there is nothing else it seems. I am an atheist now, and some "christians" have tried to tell me that being the case, I am either A) saved regardless as I was a "christian" or B) I never was a REAL ONE in the first place! lol I tell you something iscribe, IF those commandments Moses allegedly came down with..etc.. IF they had not been set in stone (pardon the pun) would we all be wandering around like little gods, stealing, raping, and spilling blood whenever our vanity was offended?"... Oh hang on, that is happening now ANYWAY and usually by the hands of the "godbotherers" allegedly doing it in "his" name. Oh the irony! Quote:
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I almost wish you would have left the comment and post undisturbed because it shows the hypocrisy of persons attitude and total and complete intolerance of Christians. **I know, damned if you do, and damned if you dont** It just shows persons enmity towards people who profess Christ, while I really have none towards him. The intolerance he displays is quite apparent. Isn't it ironic? <Said like Allanis Morrisett> Well, off for a burger and some pool. cheers- phil
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